Rising From the Ashes: My Healing Journey

For most of my life, I believed healing was about moving on, keeping busy, or pretending the pain never existed. But when life kept handing me the same patterns—broken relationships, betrayal, financial strain, and generational shadows—I realized healing was not something you “get over.” It’s something you rise into.

That’s why I wrote my book, "Rising from the Ashes". It’s not just a story—it’s the map of my awakening. It’s the record of how I crawled out of survival mode and found my strength in places I never thought possible.

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Breaking the Chains of the Past

I carried more than just my own wounds. I carried the weight of my lineage—generations of slavery, struggle, control, poverty, and silence. What I didn’t know was that these invisible chains were shaping my decisions, my relationships, and even my sense of worth.

Every time I thought I was free, life would show me another layer of the curse:

A marriage that left me financially responsible and the sole breadwinner, while love turned into survival.

A family home that felt more like a battlefield than a refuge.

A karmic mother’s control masked as concern, slowly erasing my confidence.

Healing began when I stopped asking “Why me?” and started asking “What now?”

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The Dark Night That Awakened Me

Sometimes healing doesn’t start with soft music and meditation—it starts with shock. Mine began the day I discovered betrayal and abuse within the very walls where my children should have been safest. That moment cracked me open. It destroyed the illusion that I could hold everything together by myself.

Instead of breaking me completely, it birthed my spiritual gifts. It was in my darkest night that I found my anointing, my calling, my voice.

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Discovering My Divine Inheritance

For so long, I believed freedom, abundance, and peace were reserved for “the chosen.” Then I realized—we are all chosen. The system we live in hides that truth, conditioning us to conform, to submit, to shrink.

But the Creator promised us an inheritance—healing, wholeness, love, and divine order. The key is to unlearn (or as I would say what we’ve been taught, "deprogram you from your childhood trauma and dogmatic programming" and remember what our souls already know.

My journey showed me that real healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about uncovering what was whole in you all along.

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Tools That Helped Me Rise

In my book "Rising from the Ashes" I share the practices that helped me turn trauma into transformation:

✨ Forgiveness as freedom – not excusing, but releasing.

✨ Healing the inner child – rewriting the story from victim to victor.

✨ Affirmations & divine truth – replacing the lies of fear with the voice of love.

✨ Trusting intuition – learning that the inner whisper is the compass of the soul.

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Rising Is Not the End—it’s the Beginning

Healing doesn’t mean the past disappears. It means you finally step out of survival and into alignment.

Today, I live with a clarity I never thought possible. I’ve turned my pain into purpose, my fear into faith, and my story into a guide for others who are ready to rise.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in cycles you didn’t create, know this: you are not broken. You are not cursed. You are becoming.

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